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You just started seeing someone new, and things are getting hot and heavy. You think the opportunity for sex is going to come up soon — but you're not really sure how to make the most of the experience. Once those hormones start flowing, it feels almost impossible to change the flow of events. What If the person you're hooking up with doesn't use protection, or they're not into the kind of sex that you are? These topics can make or break a sexual relationship. Thankfully, there's a very simple way to make sure they won't derail your relationship. Opening communication in these three topics will help you. ensure that you have the best sexual relationship you could possibly have — right from the very beginning!
Your Sexual Health
White your partners are not entitled to your full sexual history (unless you want to share it with them:), necessary to be open about your sexual health. In some places, you can even be jailed for failure to disclose sexually transmitted diseases before engaging in a sexual relationship. This can be an uncomfortable topic, of course. But It's also an important step in the process of informed consent.
To talk about this less awkward (and accusatory), get tested together. Not only does this put both your minds at ease, but if there is an STO to be concerned about, you'll be able to seek treatment to prevent spreading ft to someone else. It's generally a good idea to get tested at least once or twice a year anyway if you are sexually active.
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